Ann, What a beautiful way to pay tribute to your dear friend, Patti. I wish I knew her because if she was such a dear person, I would have been blessed with her in my life. Just as I'm blessed to have you in my life. You are right, she will be with you always. Her heart and soul have not gone anywhere. They remain with you and all who loved her. I'll be praying for her, and also for you; that you will be blessed with some relief from the deep grief you must feel. May Patti rest in peace.
Dear Steve, Barbara, bill, jacqui, Billy, Peggy and Gary, I am so deeply sad to know that Patti is gone. It is a small relief to know that my cousin who meant so much to me is no longer suffering. Thank you Ann for establishing this page.
I am beyond saddened to learn of Patti's death and am so very sorry for all that you have had to endure over these past two months. Please know that I have and will continue to hold you, Patti and your entire family in my prayers. I love you Rosie and consider it an honor to have known and worked with Patti at PSP. I will forever remember her beautiful smile, calming presence and kindness.
I could not have asked for a better woman to watch over my kids. You always had a great smile and warm hug for Dylan when we came to pick up Alex each day. You will be truly missed.
I am so sad to hear of Patti's passing. We only got to see her on Mondays but she always made my day when I came to pick Kelsey up, she always had a big smile, a great story of what Kelsey had done that day and big hug for her when we were leaving. She showed so much love for my child and was such a kind and loving person with such a big heart. My heart and our prayers go out to her family and her sister Mrs. Roszel. She will be missed by so many. Love, Leigh, Mark and Kelsey Fontneau
We love you and miss you. Heaven's band just received a rare gift. You were perhaps the most selfless person I've ever had the pleasure to know. You aways cared more for other than you ever did for yourself. You were a rare gift and will be missed by us all. Much love and rest easy, we'll watch over Steve. Love, Buddy, Kim, Melvin and the rest of our family
I am so sad to hear about Patti's untimely passing. Mrs. Haugh made such an impact in my children's life and will truly be missed! They were so fortunate to have her as a teacher during their early pre-school years. She was so kind and loving to both of my children, my husband and I. My thoughts are with you, Mrs. Roszel and rest of Patti's family. Patti will be missed, especially from her Preschool Playmates family.
I consider myself extremely fortunate to have had an older sister who always took a positive interest in her geeky younger brother's life. This genuine concern and compassion for all those lucky enough to cross her path, be it friends, family, co-workers, students, or the children she enjoyed caring for and encouraging so much, defined her life for as long as I can remember. I will miss her more than I know. Love you Pat.
Mrs. Haugh was an amazing teacher, whether she was teaching the little ones or helping us (high schoolers) out in the preschool she could do it all. I've never seen someone have such amazing ideas for a lesson plan, or jump to help anyone who needed it. She truly had a gift with children that is unlike anything I've seen. She could comfort the shyest kids and bring them out of their shells. Her artwork always brought a smile to everyones face. There was no need for coloring sheets if Ms. Haugh sat down at the table, she'd just draw amazing line drawings for the kids to color in. I find myself extremely grateful to have been able to work with such an amazing woman. She taught me lessons as a teacher that will forever stay with me as I go on to teach on my own. I wish she didn't have to say goodbye, but I know shes up in heaven singing and drawing and playing with kids finally at peace and out of pain. I love you Mrs. Haugh <3 RIP
We lost a beautiful & talented niece on Friday and the tears continue to flow. The pain is now gone and Patti can be at peace. There is no cancer in Heaven. We love you Patti. Auntie Anne & Uncle David
I remember babysitting Patti and her siblings at the house in Billerica those many years ago. Going for a ride with "DA" to see the pretty Christmas lights , and how DA laughed when Patti came to visit at Blackstone Rd. and told him that her new playmate's name was "Rickey Mooney". I'm sure that Grama & DA have welcomed Patti to heaven. I still have two letters that Patti sent to me over 40 years ago while serving in the Navy ,when I re-read them I once again see my beautiful young niece with a happy smile and disposition to match. I will miss that smile , but mostly the beautiful person behind it. uncle Bunky
I am very sad to hear of Patti's premature passing. Both of my children had the pleasure of having Patti as a teacher at PSP and they both loved her dearly. They always had such nice things to say about Mrs. Haugh and they looked forward to their time with her. Patti always had big hugs and smiles for my little girls. I couldn't have asked for a kinder, gentler, more loving women to care for my children during their time at school. She will be missed very much by my family and we are so fortunate to have had the honor of knowing her. My heart goes out to Mrs. Roszel and all of Patti's family during this difficult time.
Words can't express our sadness for the premature loss of Mrs. Haugh. We feel extremely blessed that Brendan and Brianna's lives were touched by her. She was always so kind, caring, compassionate, and patient with all of the children at PSP. Her smile and hugs worked magic and she had such a great connection with the kids. She will be missed very much. Our thoughts and prayers are with Mrs. Roszel and the rest of Patti's family as well as her PSP family. -The Eddy Family
From deep in our hearts we are sad to learn of Patti's passing. Our twins Brynne and Cassie were lucky to have her as a teacher. To have an angel go home so early is always hard but to have the pleasure of having Patti in our lives was a blessing. We will miss her dearly. God bless. Karen and Chris londergan
My life was touch on earth by an angel. I have been more than blessed to have shared over forty years of friendship and family with Patti, through thick and thin we we grew up together having so many wonderful memories. Godmother to my first born, she stood by me and my life without hesitation. We laughed we cried and spent endless moments helping one another. I will never forget her kind words her generous soul and beautiful voice. Thank you Patti for all the lullaby's to my babies,the love and laughter we shared. I hope you, Arthur and Raymond are all together now laughing singing and dancing. You will be forever young in my heart. I am so glad you found the love of your life with Steve. Rest now my friend I know I will see you in the end. I love you.
I am so saddened to hear of the passing of Patti, I will forever remember her beautiful smile, her calmness and her kindness. She was a gift to all on earth who knew her. To all of Patti's family, I am truly sorry for your pain. May God bless you as you try and get to a place in your sadness where thinking of Patti will bring a smile and wash away your tears. She was so beautiful inside and out.
Mrs.Haugh was one of the sweetest teachers i ever met.Our preschool children were just in love with her.Iv'e learned so many things from her, and i will carry them with me throughout my own preschool teaching career.We will never forget you. Love you, miss you, rest in piece Mrs.Haugh <3
My deepest sympathy to Patti's Husband,Steve and her Family. I was shocked and saddened to hear about her illness and her passing. When I think of Patti, I remember a beautiful smile,a kind soul, and her amazing voice when we had the opportunity to hear her sing...It was a pleasure to have known her. D.G.
We are so saddened by the loss of Mrs Haugh. Cassidy was so blessed and lucky to have had such an amazing teacher at PSP for the past 2 years. She was so loving, fun and compassionate and able to bring our shy child out of her shell. She always had a big smile and hello for my older son when we picked Cassidy up. He always went home with something to color along with Cassidy. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mrs Roszel and all of Patti's family. She will be missed deeply. -Karen, Al, Colby and Cassidy Flanders
One story Patti often reminded me of was the time I played the clarinet for her over the telephone. I was about 10 or 11. I remember I locked myself in the bathroom in the basement and carefully placed the sheet music on the toilet seat, next to the phone. I played an entire song, and Patti listened. When I was done she had such kind compliments and remarked at how well I played. Her interest and enthusiam for me was genuine. When in doubt about myself, Patti always assured me. My busy cousin, with 5 siblings of her own, living 20+ years ahead of me, and she always gave me her undivided attention and sincere interest in me. It's funny. Patti always told that story in the context of how special and talented I was. Always remembered it as a very special time where I was made to feel special and talented. patti brought the best out in everyone. I never knew anymore more selfless. When I last saw her, a few days before she died, the first thing she did was apologize for not being in touch the last few months. She asked wi all sincerity how I was doing, and was there anything she could do for me, thou she knew her offer to help would not be true, not this time. I was floored. Patti, I promise to pay it forward and be there for those you loved most dear as best I can the way you were for me. Patti was sunshine in my life, so warm, clear, enlightening. A glimpse of that every year or every few months was all I neededtocarry me through until the next time we met. Patti, our last conversation will carry me through our longest stretch now until the next time we meet. I love you so very deeply, with all my heart. You made me visible when I felt invisible. Love marilyn
Nature's first green is gold, Her hardest hue to hold. Her early leaf's a flower; But only so an hour. Then leaf susides to leaf. So Eden sank to grief, So dawn goes down to day. Nothing gold can stay. Robert Frost I have plenty of words to say. They're in my head- but I can't seem to write them right now. I love you Patti Ann---Your sister Peggy who always wanted to be as cool as you.
My children, Trevor and Kallee, adored Mrs. Haugh. She was such a kind, loving, and patient woman. Everyday when I picked the kids up from PSP, she always shared with me a story about their day. When it was time to go, they couldn't leave without hugging her. They loved her, and she loved them. I always felt blessed to know they had such a wonderful woman taking care of them. We all miss you! The Marder Family
Patti was just a genuine sweet kind hearted woman. She was such a blessing. She brought such love into my life and my girls. I am so touched to see picutres of her with them on here. Their bond was extraordinary. My daughers love Patti with all their hearts as did I. We will miss her deeply. Love you Mrs. Haugh!!!
Patty was a great sister in law,and a great person.One of my foundest memories is when I was a Pre school teacher in Rockland.I had all my children in a circle singing,You Are My Sunshine and out of nowhere Patty came in and sang,with her beutifull voice,with us.I love you Patty..You will be missed,butyou will be in my heart every day
"Life is not a race - but indeed a journey. Be Honest. Work Hard. Be Choosy. Say "thank you", and "great job" to someone each day. Go to church, take time for prayer.
The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh. Let your handshake mean more than pen and paper. Love your life and what you've been given, it is not accidental ~ search for your purpose and do it as best you can.
Dreaming does matter. It allows you to become that which you inspire to be. Laugh often. Appreciate the little things in life and enjoy them Some of the best things really are free.
Do not worry, less wrinkles are more becoming. Forgive, it frees the soul. Take time for yourself ~ Plan for longevity. Recognize the special people you've been blessed to know.
Live for today, enjoy the moment." ~ Bonnie Mohr
Patti will live on forever within the hearts of my children. We were blessed to have her as part of our lives even if it was a couple of short hours each day. She molded the personalities of children with love and compassion. Her passing is a great loss to all of us. Thoughts and Prayers are with all of you at the time of sorrow.
We are so lucky to have had Patti as part of our family. She was taken from us far too soon. We will miss her smiles, kisses and hugs. She is truly one of the most giving and selfless people we have known. One of her gifts was her love for children, which was evident to all who knew her. Her magnetic personality drew kids in like candy. We will always remember how our kids would love to run over to Steve & Patti's cottage, where she would give them treats to eat and crayons and books to play with. They were always prepared for little visitors.
Why would God take someone like Patti so early in life? Maybe He needed someone to watch over His little angels up in heaven, or maybe He just wanted someone as cool as Patti to hang out with. Either way, it's his gain, but our loss.
What a joy to have you for a friend for the past 35 years. I will miss you and think about you every day for the rest of my life. XOXO
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ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful way to pay tribute to your dear friend, Patti. I wish I knew her because if she was such a dear person, I would have been blessed with her in my life. Just as I'm blessed to have you in my life. You are right, she will be with you always. Her heart and soul have not gone anywhere. They remain with you and all who loved her. I'll be praying for her, and also for you; that you will be blessed with some relief from the deep grief you must feel. May Patti rest in peace.
Dear Steve, Barbara, bill, jacqui, Billy, Peggy and Gary,
ReplyDeleteI am so deeply sad to know that Patti is gone. It is a small relief to know that my cousin who meant so much to me is no longer suffering.
Thank you Ann for establishing this page.
Dear Jacqui and Family,
ReplyDeleteI am beyond saddened to learn of Patti's death and am so very sorry for all that you have had to endure over these past two months. Please know that I have and will continue to hold you, Patti and your entire family in my prayers. I love you Rosie and consider it an honor to have known and worked with Patti at PSP. I will forever remember her beautiful smile, calming presence and kindness.
All my love,
Annie :)
I could not have asked for a better woman to watch over my kids. You always had a great smile and warm hug for Dylan when we came to pick up Alex each day. You will be truly missed.
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I am so sad to hear of Patti's passing. We only got to see her on Mondays but she always made my day when I came to pick Kelsey up, she always had a big smile, a great story of what Kelsey had done that day and big hug for her when we were leaving. She showed so much love for my child and was such a kind and loving person with such a big heart. My heart and our prayers go out to her family and her sister Mrs. Roszel. She will be missed by so many.
ReplyDeleteLove, Leigh, Mark and Kelsey Fontneau
We love you and miss you. Heaven's band just received a rare gift. You were perhaps the most selfless person I've ever had the pleasure to know. You aways cared more for other than you ever did for yourself. You were a rare gift and will be missed by us all. Much love and rest easy, we'll watch over Steve.
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Buddy, Kim, Melvin and the rest of our family
I lost a world the other day.
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You'll know it by the ring of stars
Around its forehead bound.
Emily Dickinson
I am so sad to hear about Patti's untimely passing. Mrs. Haugh made such an impact in my children's life and will truly be missed! They were so fortunate to have her as a teacher during their early pre-school years. She was so kind and loving to both of my children, my husband and I. My thoughts are with you, Mrs. Roszel and rest of Patti's family. Patti will be missed, especially from her Preschool Playmates family.
ReplyDeleterest is peace, you were an amazing teacher <3
ReplyDeleteI consider myself extremely fortunate to have had an older sister who always took a positive interest in her geeky younger brother's life. This genuine concern and compassion for all those lucky enough to cross her path, be it friends, family, co-workers, students, or the children she enjoyed caring for and encouraging so much, defined her life for as long as I can remember. I will miss her more than I know. Love you Pat.
ReplyDeleteMrs. Haugh was an amazing teacher, whether she was teaching the little ones or helping us (high schoolers) out in the preschool she could do it all. I've never seen someone have such amazing ideas for a lesson plan, or jump to help anyone who needed it. She truly had a gift with children that is unlike anything I've seen. She could comfort the shyest kids and bring them out of their shells. Her artwork always brought a smile to everyones face. There was no need for coloring sheets if Ms. Haugh sat down at the table, she'd just draw amazing line drawings for the kids to color in. I find myself extremely grateful to have been able to work with such an amazing woman. She taught me lessons as a teacher that will forever stay with me as I go on to teach on my own. I wish she didn't have to say goodbye, but I know shes up in heaven singing and drawing and playing with kids finally at peace and out of pain.
ReplyDeleteI love you Mrs. Haugh <3 RIP
We lost a beautiful & talented niece on Friday and the tears continue to flow. The pain is now gone and Patti can be at peace. There is no cancer in Heaven. We love you Patti. Auntie Anne & Uncle David
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ReplyDeletethere were bells on a hill
but i never heard them ringing
no, i never heard them at all
till there was you. <3
-the Beatles
I remember babysitting Patti and her siblings at the house in Billerica those many years ago. Going for a ride with "DA" to see the pretty Christmas lights , and how DA laughed when Patti came to visit at Blackstone Rd. and told him that her new playmate's name was "Rickey Mooney". I'm sure that Grama & DA have welcomed Patti to heaven. I still have two letters that Patti sent to me over 40 years ago while serving in the Navy ,when I re-read them I once again see my beautiful young niece with a happy smile and disposition to match. I will miss that smile , but mostly the beautiful person behind it. uncle Bunky
ReplyDeleteI am very sad to hear of Patti's premature passing. Both of my children had the pleasure of having Patti as a teacher at PSP and they both loved her dearly. They always had such nice things to say about Mrs. Haugh and they looked forward to their time with her. Patti always had big hugs and smiles for my little girls. I couldn't have asked for a kinder, gentler, more loving women to care for my children during their time at school. She will be missed very much by my family and we are so fortunate to have had the honor of knowing her. My heart goes out to Mrs. Roszel and all of Patti's family during this difficult time.
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Words can't express our sadness for the premature loss of Mrs. Haugh. We feel extremely blessed that Brendan and Brianna's lives were touched by her. She was always so kind, caring, compassionate, and patient with all of the children at PSP. Her smile and hugs worked magic and she had such a great connection with the kids. She will be missed very much. Our thoughts and prayers are with Mrs. Roszel and the rest of Patti's family as well as her PSP family.
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From deep in our hearts we are sad to learn of Patti's passing. Our twins Brynne and Cassie were lucky to have her as a teacher. To have an angel go home so early is always hard but to have the pleasure of having Patti in our lives was a blessing. We will miss her dearly. God bless. Karen and Chris londergan
ReplyDeleteMy life was touch on earth by an angel. I have been more than blessed to have shared over forty years of friendship and family with Patti, through thick and thin we we grew up together having so many wonderful memories. Godmother to my first born, she stood by me and my life without hesitation. We laughed we cried and spent endless moments helping one another. I will never forget her kind words her generous soul and beautiful voice. Thank you Patti for all the lullaby's to my babies,the love and laughter we shared. I hope you, Arthur and Raymond are all together now laughing singing and dancing. You will be forever young in my heart. I am so glad you found the love of your life with Steve. Rest now my friend I know I will see you in the end. I love you.
ReplyDeleteI am so saddened to hear of the passing of Patti, I will forever remember her beautiful smile, her calmness and her kindness. She was a gift to all on earth who knew her. To all of Patti's family, I am truly sorry for your pain. May God bless you as you try and get to a place in your sadness where thinking of Patti will bring a smile and wash away your tears. She was so beautiful inside and out.
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Mrs.Haugh was one of the sweetest teachers i ever met.Our preschool children were just in love with her.Iv'e learned so many things from her, and i will carry them with me throughout my own preschool teaching career.We will never forget you. Love you, miss you, rest in piece Mrs.Haugh <3
ReplyDeleteWe are truly sorry to hear of Patti's untimely passing and wish to express our sincere sympathy and prayers to the entire family.
ReplyDeleteMy deepest sympathy to Patti's Husband,Steve and her Family. I was shocked and saddened to hear about her illness and her passing. When I think of Patti, I remember a beautiful smile,a kind soul, and her amazing voice when we had the opportunity to hear her sing...It was a pleasure to have known her. D.G.
ReplyDeleteWe are so saddened by the loss of Mrs Haugh. Cassidy was so blessed and lucky to have had such an amazing teacher at PSP for the past 2 years. She was so loving, fun and compassionate and able to bring our shy child out of her shell. She always had a big smile and hello for my older son when we picked Cassidy up. He always went home with something to color along with Cassidy. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mrs Roszel and all of Patti's family. She will be missed deeply.
ReplyDelete-Karen, Al, Colby and Cassidy Flanders
One story Patti often reminded me of was the time I played the clarinet for her over the telephone. I was about 10 or 11. I remember I locked myself in the bathroom in the basement and carefully placed the sheet music on the toilet seat, next to the phone. I played an entire song, and Patti listened. When I was done she had such kind compliments and remarked at how well I played. Her interest and enthusiam for me was genuine.
ReplyDeleteWhen in doubt about myself, Patti always assured me. My busy cousin, with 5 siblings of her own, living 20+ years ahead of me, and she always gave me her undivided attention and sincere interest in me. It's funny. Patti always told that story in the context of how special and talented I was. Always remembered it as a very special time where I was made to feel special and talented. patti brought the best out in everyone. I never knew anymore more selfless. When I last saw her, a few days before she died, the first thing she did was apologize for not being in touch the last few months. She asked wi all sincerity how I was doing, and was there anything she could do for me, thou she knew her offer to help would not be true, not this time. I was floored. Patti, I promise to pay it forward and be there for those you loved most dear as best I can the way you were for me.
Patti was sunshine in my life, so warm, clear, enlightening. A glimpse of that every year or every few months was all I neededtocarry me through until the next time we met. Patti, our last conversation will carry me through our longest stretch now until the next time we meet. I love you so very deeply, with all my heart. You made me visible when I felt invisible.
Love marilyn
Nature's first green is gold,
ReplyDeleteHer hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf's a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf susides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.
Robert Frost
I have plenty of words to say. They're in my head- but I can't seem to write them right now. I love you Patti Ann---Your sister Peggy who always wanted to be as cool as you.
My children, Trevor and Kallee, adored Mrs. Haugh. She was such a kind, loving, and patient woman. Everyday when I picked the kids up from PSP, she always shared with me a story about their day. When it was time to go, they couldn't leave without hugging her. They loved her, and she loved them. I always felt blessed to know they had such a wonderful woman taking care of them. We all miss you!
ReplyDeleteThe Marder Family
Patti was just a genuine sweet kind hearted woman. She was such a blessing. She brought such love into my life and my girls. I am so touched to see picutres of her with them on here. Their bond was extraordinary. My daughers love Patti with all their hearts as did I. We will miss her deeply. Love you Mrs. Haugh!!!
ReplyDeleteShe was the best person I knew. I'll miss her forever.
ReplyDeleteBeing referred to as Patti Trudell's brother
ReplyDeleteis as cool as it gets.
You taught me so much Patti. I love you and will
keep you in my heart forever.
Bill
Patty was a great sister in law,and a great person.One of my foundest memories is when I was a Pre school teacher in Rockland.I had all my children in a circle singing,You Are My Sunshine and out of nowhere Patty came in and sang,with her beutifull voice,with us.I love you Patty..You will be missed,butyou will be in my heart every day
ReplyDelete"Life is not a race - but indeed a journey. Be Honest. Work Hard. Be Choosy. Say "thank you", and "great job" to someone each day. Go to church, take time for prayer.
ReplyDeleteThe Lord giveth and the Lord taketh. Let your handshake mean more than pen and paper. Love your life and what you've been given, it is not accidental ~ search for your purpose and do it as best you can.
Dreaming does matter. It allows you to become that which you inspire to be. Laugh often. Appreciate the little things in life and enjoy them Some of the best things really are free.
Do not worry, less wrinkles are more becoming. Forgive, it frees the soul. Take time for yourself ~ Plan for longevity. Recognize the special people you've been blessed to know.
Live for today, enjoy the moment." ~ Bonnie Mohr
Patti will live on forever within the hearts of my children. We were blessed to have her as part of our lives even if it was a couple of short hours each day. She molded the personalities of children with love and compassion. Her passing is a great loss to all of us. Thoughts and Prayers are with all of you at the time of sorrow.
The Abbott Family
We are so lucky to have had Patti as part of our family. She was taken from us far too soon. We will miss her smiles, kisses and hugs. She is truly one of the most giving and selfless people we have known. One of her gifts was her love for children, which was evident to all who knew her. Her magnetic personality drew kids in like candy. We will always remember how our kids would love to run over to Steve & Patti's cottage, where she would give them treats to eat and crayons and books to play with. They were always prepared for little visitors.
ReplyDeleteWhy would God take someone like Patti so early in life? Maybe He needed someone to watch over His little angels up in heaven, or maybe He just wanted someone as cool as Patti to hang out with. Either way, it's his gain, but our loss.
Love and miss you Patti.
Dave & Kristin